It's not a secret that men often mistake friendliness for flirtation.
Want to avoid another embarrassing situation? Try looking for the
following signals.
Playing with her hair
Many women spend a lot of time and energy on their hair, for good
reason. Instinctively, well-cared for hair indicates health, status, and
conscientiousness. By playing with her hair, she's showing off.
Calling attention to her mouth
She might eat something slowly, lick her lips, or put on lipstick. You
can tell that she has flirtatious intentions if she does these actions
carefully and delibrately. Of course, a kiss is what's she's after.
Crossing and uncrossing her legs
Like the mouth, the legs are another erotic area. You get bonus points
if she's crossing her legs toward you. Make sure she's doing it
repeatedly—she could just be sitting that way because it's
comfortable for her.
Adjusting clothing to expose more skin
When a woman does this, it's hard for a man not to notice. Whether or
not she makes eye contact can help indicate whether or not it was an
intentional sign. Try to pay attention to whether or not her clothes
actually needed adjusting in the first place.
Dangling one shoe
Another irresistable move. Again, be sure to confirm this signal with
other signs of playfulness. Some women love this move because it can be
very effective without them saying a word.
Other positive signs
Raising an arm
Stroking a glass stem or rim
Exposing her neck
Playing with jewelry
Looking down and smiling
Glancing at you sideways
Mirroring your actions
Touching you
Signs that she's not interested
Wandering eyes
Crossing arms (or keeping them on her hips)
Leaning away
Tapping fingers or feet
Keeping her distance
Elsewhere on the Web
Flirting in Traffic
10 Things Men Think Women Like
Top Flirting Tips
Books
The Little Book of Flirting
Always Talk to Strangers: 3 Simple Steps to Finding the Love of Your Life
Stumbling Naked in the Dark: Overcoming Mistakes Men Make with Women
